Resources and directory

Finding the right support.

A curated list of in-home euthanasia providers, grief support resources, and aftercare services. Updated regularly. If you know of a provider that should be listed here, let us know.

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In-home euthanasia

  • Lap of Love The largest network of in-home end-of-life veterinarians in the US. Available in most metro areas. Book online with transparent pricing.
    National
  • In-Home Pet Euthanasia Directory A searchable directory of independent in-home euthanasia providers by zip code.
    National
  • Your regular vet Many general practice vets offer in-home services for established patients. It is always worth asking, even if it isn't advertised.
    Varies

Aftercare services

  • Pet cremation: finding a reputable provider The International Association of Pet Cemeteries and Crematories maintains a directory of accredited members.
    National
  • Aquamation vs. flame cremation An honest comparison of water cremation and flame cremation — cost, ash volume, environmental impact, and how to choose.
    Guide
  • Green aftercare: aquamation, bio-urns, and beyond A complete guide to eco-conscious pet aftercare options in 2026, including water cremation, biodegradable urns, and living memorials.
    Guide
  • How to find a pet aquamation provider near you What to ask, what to watch out for, and a printable provider interview checklist.
    Guide
  • Home burial laws by state Our full guide covers legality, depth requirements, and HOA considerations for every US state.
    All states

Grief support

  • ASPCA Pet Loss Support Hotline Free support line staffed by counselors trained in pet loss grief. Available evenings and weekends.
    National
  • Cornell Pet Loss Support Hotline Run by Cornell University College of Veterinary Medicine. Available Tuesday through Thursday evenings.
    National
  • Association for Pet Loss and Bereavement Maintains a directory of grief counselors who specialize in pet loss, searchable by location.
    National
  • Online support communities Reddit's r/petloss community is large, active, and consistently compassionate. A good place to find people who understand.
    Online

Memorials and keepsakes

  • 7 ways to turn ashes into art and jewelry Glass art, memorial diamonds, resin pendants, ceramic work, and more — with timelines and real costs for each option.
    Guide
  • An honest review of The Living Urn Does the tree actually grow? A skeptic-first review of the leading living memorial product, including what the science says about ash and soil.
    Review
  • Paw print and casting kits Several companies make high-quality at-home kits for ink prints and clay castings. Our guide explains when and how to do this.
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  • Custom pet portraits Commissioned artwork from a photograph. A range of styles and price points. Our guide covers what to look for in an artist.
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